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Fall in Love . . . Again

birds feeding_young tree sky loveSome things make you feel just a little more alive.

Hearing a moving song. Helping someone in need. Reading words that make you cry. Seeing a sunset with breath-taking colors.

And the feeling is multiplied immeasurably if you are sharing those experiences with someone special.

Indeed, love completes us as human beings.

Do you remember your first powerful encounter with “falling in love?” Even though it happened decades ago, I never will forget how that felt for me. I had my first job out of college as the sports editor of the daily newspaper in Sedalia, Mo. Donna was still in college and living in St. Peters, Mo., a good three-hour drive from Sedalia. We had met on a Teen Encounter Christ retreat and over the next few months became friends.

I was homesick and lonely in Sedalia, where I was working long hours and didn’t know anyone. So I kept in close touch with friends back in the St. Louis area the best I could. And I was smitten by Donna.

I asked her out — in a letter. That seemed pretty safe to me! She said yes. My life never has been the same since.

Something special happened. We talked about each other all the time. I know I thought about her all the time. I missed home a great deal, but I was happy because I was writing and I was in love. I looked at the world in a whole new way. Colors were brighter, life was more fun. It didn’t matter what I was doing as long as I was doing it with her. I still acted selfishly at times — love doesn’t turn you into a perfect person — but that love at least was always in the back of my mind. It made me a better person.

All of our kids are in their 20s now, just as Donna and I were when we fell in love. I often have prayed that they would be blessed with the same giddiness that we experienced.

I also often pray that my children would fall in love with Jesus. Do you ever pray for that — for yourself as well as for others?

Falling completely head-over-heels in love with the Lord feels much the same as what men and women experience together. There is an indescribable joy.

“Don’t concern yourself with anything but the Lord,” the late spiritual writer Father Henri Nouwen used to tell people. “Ask yourself, ‘What has this to do with the Lord?’ and if the answer is ‘nothing,’ then just drop it.”

What could be better than falling in love with Jesus — or falling in love again, if it already has happened for you once? The love between a couple has stages and doesn’t always retain that initial lightheaded feeling, and the same can happen in our relationship with Christ. Over time we can go through certain motions, including Mass and prayer, without our hearts being completely captivated.

After a while, other things take the focus of our attention. We make time for so many nonspiritual things in life. I can spend a whole day looking forward to watching a three-hour St. Louis Cardinals baseball game on TV and I never would think of missing lunch or dinner, yet I don’t take 15 minutes to read Scripture or 20 minutes to pray the Rosary regularly. Being in love with Jesus would motivate us to make time and appointments with Him.

Time to just be with Him, to read letters from Him, to listen to Him pour out His love for you. You will talk about Him more often with others. You will think about Him constantly. The world won’t look the same if you would give Him your heart.

Jesus, giddy in expectation, already is head over heels crazy for you.

 


Mike Eisenbath has been married to Donna for 30 years; they have four adult children and two grandsons. He was an award-winning sportswriter for 23 years, including 18 at the St. Louis Post-Dispatch with duties that included covering the St. Louis Cardinals and Major League Baseball. Severe depression forced him out of that career. He continues to write, with a monthly column in the St. Louis Review and his www.eisenbath.com website featuring reflections on topics such as his Catholic faith and mental illness. Mike is a frequent speaker and radio guest involving those subjects. Among his three books is Hence My Eyes Are Turned Toward You: Confronting Depression With Faith and the Prayer of Jehoshaphat. You can find Mike on Twitter @mikeeisenbath
Mike Eisenbath has been married to Donna for 30 years; they have four adult children and two grandsons. He was an award-winning sportswriter for 23 years, including 18 at the St. Louis Post-Dispatch with duties that included covering the St. Louis Cardinals and Major League Baseball. Severe depression forced him out of that career. He continues to write, with a monthly column in the St. Louis Review and his www.eisenbath.com website featuring reflections on topics such as his Catholic faith and mental illness. Mike is a frequent speaker and radio guest involving those subjects. Among his three books is Hence My Eyes Are Turned Toward You: Confronting Depression With Faith and the Prayer of Jehoshaphat. - See more at: http://www.catholiclane.com/author/meisenbath/#sthash.qfMxk2sL.dpuf

  • MarytheDefender

    Fall in Love

    Attributed to Fr. Pedro Arrupe, SJ (1907–1991)

    Nothing is more practical than
    finding God, than
    falling in Love
    in a quite absolute, final way.
    What you are in love with,
    what seizes your imagination, will affect everything.
    It will decide
    what will get you out of bed in the morning,
    what you do with your evenings,
    how you spend your weekends,
    what you read, whom you know,
    what breaks your heart,
    and what amazes you with joy and gratitude.
    Fall in Love, stay in love,
    and it will decide everything.