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No Time for Lenten Services? Use the Drive-thru.

A little cramped for time this Ash Wednesday? No problem. An Ohio Methodist minister, Rev. Patricia Anderson Cook, has found the solution for busy Christians on this holy day: Drive-thru ashes and reflection. From 5-6pm EST on Ash Wednesday, Rev. Cook, pastor of Mt. Healthy United Methodist Church, will be out in her church parking lot offering Lenten Ashes to anyone who’d like them. Yep. You can stay right inside your car, receive ashes, a church brochure, and a reflection booklet to read…when? On the way home?

“We have two entrances and one exit,” Cook said in an article published February 21 in the Cinncinnati Enquirer (link for the article, here). “So we should be able to do this fairly quickly.”

Rev. Cook also told the Enquirer that she knows of no other local churches providing this service, but thinks maybe they should.

“Some people are very busy, and some people get a little intimidated walking into a church, this is for them.”

I appreciate the creativity of Rev. Patricia Anderson Cook. After all, denominations of every sect must find new ways to reach out to existing and potential congregants in order to survive. I also appreciate Rev. Cook’s energy and effort to…err…spread the ashes as far and wide and she is able in order to draw folks into Lenten observance.

However, I do cringe at the thought of “fast ashes” modeled after the innovation of “fast food” in our country. Convenience food chains such as McDonald’s, Burger King, and Taco Bell (among others) have made it ever-so-easy for consumers to grab a meal (I use that term lightly, here) and go. That’s fine when you really are on an impossibly tight schedule and have no other options. But, think about what’s happened to this country since the onslaught of drive-thrus? As a culture, we stopped eating meals together except on special occasions, lost sight of the value of family dinners, quit taking advantage of an excellent way to reconnect and recommit, and began caring less about what we eat and how it’s prepared. We let a vital ritual slip right through our fingers. What once was a way to foster community – not just among families, but also among communities of many kinds – has become an oddity.

When I think about drive-thru ashes, I wonder whether this innovation will do for church congregations what fast foods have done for the American family. There’s something about joining together as the Family of God as we embark on our collective Lenten journey in order to acknowledge our sinfulness, pray and sing together, give glory to God, support one another in our striving, and humbly and reverently receive the blessed ashes that are a reminder of our human frailty and need for God’s mercy.

Ash Wednesday is about more than having a thumb-full of ashes scruffed across our foreheads. It’s about coming together as People of God to repent and recognize our hope in the Resurrection. Having ashes on our own foreheads is one thing, but to look around an entire church full of others bearing the same symbol of our Christianity stirs the soul and helps us to realize the gravity of our sins.

What a shame if Ash Wednesday became like a fast-food meal: consumed in a hurry and with no lingering impressions. It’s not something we do just for the sake of having done it. Rather, it’s a solemn ritual that should be the beginning of our lasting conversion.


Marge Fenelon is a Catholic wife, mother, author, columnist, and speaker. She’s a frequent contributor to a number of Catholic publications and websites and is a regular guest on Catholic radio. She’s written several books about Marian devotion and Catholic family life and has touched the hearts of audiences in a variety of venues. Her latest book is Imitating Mary: Ten Marian Virtues for the Modern Mom (Ave Maria Press, 2013).
  • Claire

    I’m sorry to say that the people sitting in front of us at Mass this morning treated the situation like a drive-thru. They left right after getting their ashes. It’s bad enough when people leave right after Communion, but at least at that point they’ve attended most of the Mass. This was a new one for me.

  • goral

    Don’t forget that “fast” has two meanings. Americans are so practical… minus the practice.

  • I received a question from a reader: Is the distribution of ashes by Protestant sects something new? Would anyone like to offer comment on that?

    • JAMaria

      Hi,
      A friend of mine who is Catholic received her Ashes at a Lutheran church here in NYC. Is that right? I wonder how many Catholic associate the distribution of Ashes by protestant sects the same as distribution of ashes by their Catholic parishes! Given the environment in which everything is relative and the perception that one is the same as the other. I often wondered if this is a purposeful practice by protestant sects. My friends explanation was that she had run out of time and went to this church called Saint Peter’s Church. I wonder if you have any comment.