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Foolish and Wise Bridesmaids

“The religion thing can wait. After all, I believe in God and am basically a good person. I really did intend to go to church this morning, but last night’s dancing took a lot more out of me than I thought and I had one drink too many. I’ll catch it next week. I’ll pray later.”

Foolishness is a matter of priorities. The foolish person majors in the minors, investing money and time in things that really don’t pay very well. Wisdom is a matter of putting first things first, not last. Prudence, which is the practical side of wisdom, is about making a plan to pursue and attain the things that matter most (Wis 6:12-16), the things that really last.

“God is love. If I come up short, he’ll cover my tab. I’m too busy to get ready now.”

Not sweating it when it comes to being prepared for our final exam is not necessarily faith. If we neglect to do make the required preparations, it is not a result of faith but rather of the sin of presumption. When we trust Him to forgive us our bungled attempts to obey Him, God is pleased. When we blow off preparation because we expect Him to dismiss our ticket, God is not amused.

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Forgetting about the Lord is the epitome of stupidity. So is forgetting that we are not the Lord, that we are not immortal, that though God is timeless, we are not. Our nations, companies, and even our bodies, are quite mortal indeed. They will not last forever but will either come to a sudden end, or die a slow death of gradual disintegration. It’s hard to believe, but time will some day run out – for America, for me, even for Starbucks.

Jesus said many times that though this world and its affairs seem so real, so urgent, society will one day vanish and all its pressing business will be consigned to oblivion. He will return to claim his bride. We’ll either be caught with oil in our lamp–prepared and eager–or it will be like the rude surprise of guests who come early for dinner when the house is still a mess. Only this guest will be coming not to eat, but to inspect and to judge.

We’ve all had the bad dream of being back in school again and finding out that we are momentarily due to take an important exam for which we are totally unprepared. Well, maybe this dream, like the parable of the foolish bridesmaids, is meant to be a warning to us. For though we may not be the generation to witness the end of the world (1 Thes 5:13-18), each one of us will experience the end of our own private world. He will come, perhaps suddenly, for each of us, at a time of His choosing, not ours.

Many have speculated about when He will come in glory. They’ve pored over the book of Revelation and other passages of Scripture such as Paul’s description of being caught up in the air (I Thes 4). Will there be a secret rapture before he comes? Will it happen before the great tribulation, or after? Is what is happening currently in the Middle East foretold in the Bible and therefore a sign that the end is near?

Preoccupation with such things is simply a pious form of snoozing on the job. The end is, in fact near. Our role is not to calculate the day, but rather prepare for the day. If we live always ready, with extra oil for our lamps, never so absorbed that we are not at least watching out for Him with our peripheral vision, we’ll never be caught off guard. We can still enjoy this life while using it as a springboard into the next.


Marcellino D’Ambrosio (aka “Dr. Italy”) writes from Texas.  For his resources or info on his pilgrimages to Rome and the Holy Land, visit www.crossroadsinitiative.com or call 1.800.803.0118.
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  • noelfitz

    Dr D’Ambrosio,

    thanks for this profound article. I always find what you write challenging.

    Is it true that a priest asked the members of his congregation would they prefer to stay awake with the wise virgins or sleep with the foolish ones?

    The moral of the story seems to be we should protect our own interest and not support the foolish ones who have no oil. I wonder.

    Will we be judged on the balance of our lives, have we done more good than evil, or (as I learned in school – one strike and you’re out) will one mortal sin, in spite of an otherwise exemplary life, condemn us to hell for eternity?

    I also learned in school that to miss mass on Sundays, without sufficient reason, is a mortal sin. In Ireland the vast majority of Catholics are not mass attendees. Similarly it is generally accepted that people very often live together outside marriage, is this still considered mortal sin. I also learned that every sin against the 6th and 9th commandments is grave matter, is this still held? Is a belief in contraception considered a mortal sin. Basically is it hell awaiting most Catholics at present?

    Finally tonight I was reading “In Conversation with God” by Fr Francis Fernandez (32nd Sunday, Year A) in which I see “We need to maintain a good supply of oil, of good works, especially works of charity”. This sounds to me as if we are saved by works. What do you think?